It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas…

christmas tree with baubles
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14 days and counting! I am so excited! My tree is up and my son and I have decorated the house a bit. This is the first time ever that we have our tree up so early and that we have decorated the house. The Christmas spirit is alive and well in my home this year!

This is the first year that my son and I will wake up in our home on Christmas morning. We would normally sleep over at my mother’s on Christmas Eve. This of course meant spending the afternoon locked in my room at my mom’s, wrapping gifts. Ideally little should have been napping at this point so that he could make it through midnight mass, but FOMO is his second name so my dad would distract him instead.  He would rather dose off during the mass so that he was fresh as soon as the mass was done 😂. Before church he would put out the biscuits and milk for Santa and then into the car.  I would drink half the glass and through half the biscuits in my bag and put the gifts under tree before joining everyone in the car.  Coming home to discover what Santa had left under the Christmas tree while we were away has always been my son’s favourite moment at Christmas.

He would always check the milk and biscuits first as soon as he got in the house. The absolute excitement on his face when he sees that the milk and biscuits are finished was priceless. Proof that Santa was definitely there! Yay! Next he would check under the tree and lo and behold…Santa has not disappointed him! There lay all the gifts! In those few moments, his belief in the magic of Christmas is sealed and there is nothing anyone can say or do to shake it. Seeing the wonder and joy in his eyes is gift enough for me.

The past 2 Christmas’s have been very different. The first one, my mom was sick so he didn’t sleep at her house on Christmas Eve and the second, he spent with his father’s family. It was our first Christmas without my mum and I thought it would be better for him to spend it elsewhere to distract him. Luckily, despite these disruptions in our Christmas routine, he still believes in Santa and is looking forward to our first Christmas at home. I am thrilled because that belief in Santa is what makes Christmas magical and neither of us are ready to stop believing in that magic just yet.

I have to admit, it has taken a lot of reinventions of the truth as he has gotten older to keep him believing in Santa. He still believes that I have Santa, the Easter bunny and the tooth fairy’s numbers. The story has now evolved to the fact that there are so many more kids in the world today that these 3 characters need help. They now rely heavily on parents to be their helpers so that little people are not disappointed😜. He also knows that he has to “believe to receive” (one of our directors at work taught me that trick). He is no idiot so sometimes a few doubts creep in but the need to believe is stronger and overrides his doubts every time.

He has received his gift early so he is not expecting anything under the tree but of course, Santa will surprise him. I can’t wait to see the look on his face on Christmas morning!!! Today he was trying to suss out how I would go about buying him a gift without him knowing since I am at work all day and he is with me when I am not working.  That brain of his is always busy trying to figure this out.  He also clearly refuses to accept that Santa won’t leave anything for him under the tree.  He is holding on to his hope.  Well…since he believes, he will have to receive.    

This year we will start creating a new Christmas routine. We have already started by putting up the tree and decorations early and I am so excited about that. I must admit that I have no idea what that routine will be so we will just do what feels right in the moment this year and build from there every year. All I know is that I can’t wait for Christmas!!!

Christmas wreath on door
Our first Christmas Wreath

What are your Christmas traditions?  Do you spend it with family or do you prefer to be with friends? How do you keep your kids believing in the magic of Christmas?  Do you believe in it?  

Looking forward to hearing from you!  All the best with your Christmas preparations!

 

 

 

“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.” —Margaret Mead

Next month is Plastic free July. I challenge you to #Choosetorefuse for the month of July. In this post I share some tips to get you started.

Not too long ago, we had quite the downpour in Durban. Other than the expected aftermath like a flooding and landslides, these downpours are also bringing to light a not too new but concerning phenomenon…a blanket of plastic in the harbour and along the coastline. Not only is it unsightly but also devastating to aquatic life. And it’s all because we don’t recycle the plastics we do buy and we haven’t yet adopted the habit of not buying single-use plastics where we can avoid it.

Did you know:

  • Every time you buy and use recycled plastic, you are playing your part in reducing the amount of plastic that goes to landfill or ends up in the ocean . Easy Peasy right?
  • The other side of the coin is that used plastic is needed for recycling so that’s where your other job comes in. Recycle your used plastics. Here’s the catch though, it needs to be clean or it can’t be recycled so please clean your recyclables. I usable place them with the dirty dishes and wash them when I am done with my dishes. Once they are dry, I chuck them in the recycling. See, still easy peasy.

Don’t know where to take your recycling? Plastics SA has a great tool on their website that tells you where the nearest recycling facility for your plastic and a host of other stuff that you didn’t even know you could recycle, can be found. Click on this link to find out more

Challenge time!

Next month is the Plastic Free July. I am taking up the challenge to #choosetorefuse to buy single-use plastic and I challenge you to do the same. I’ve done a bit of homework on how to make the swop, after all, success is 90% preparation they say. Here are a few tips and tricks to get you started.

Sip on something cool

Ditch the plastic straws already! Those paper straws that the restaurants give us drive me insane as they always get too soggy before you get to the end of your drink. So I will be investing in metal or bamboo straws. Yes, they can be a bit expensive but in the end, the number of aquatic animal’s lives that you save will be worth it. You can purchase the straws at most stores these days. Here are links to some of them in South Africa: Faithful to Nature, Mr Price Home. @Home, YuppieChef,

Make shopping stylish

There is just no excuse to still be caught dead with a “checkers” in this day and age. Even Checkers themselves offer to pay you to buy and re-use their bags. Their stronger bags are made from recycled plastic and cost R3. You then get 50c back every time you use the bag at Checkers or Shoprite. While they might not be stylish for the runway anytime soon, doing your bit to save the planet definitely makes you cool.

I think that just about every retailer now offers reusable bags but my favourite place to buy them is Woolworths. They come in different colours (so can you can match them to your outfit if you so choose), shapes, fabrics/substrates and sizes and there is even a cooler bag shopping bag! My favourite favourite is the little shopper which I keep in my bag for any incidental shopping I need to do. Isn’t it the cutest little thing! They are not cheap at R34.99 but I am sure will get a lot of milage out of them so I am not too stressed about the price.

closed, heart-shaped Woolworths re-usable black shopping bag
Woolworths re-useable shopper which opens out into an average sized shopper.

Fashionably Hydrated

This is one that I am terribly guilty of. I keep buying bottled water when I know I shouldn’t. Thankfully I have gotten into the habit of refilling my glass bottle at work but on weekends I keep reaching for the plastic 🤦‍♀️. I highly recommend this as well. It’s definitely cheaper alternative to buying water all the time anyway. There are also a number of glass and steel bottles alternatives out there that are definitely way cooler than plastic. These are just some of the store/websites that sell some really cool stuff to help keep you hydrated without breaking the planet: Steely bottles, Yuppiechef, @home, Typo and most other stores. While I was looking at water bottles, i cam across this really cool activated charcoal water filter on @home’s website. It’s called a Kuro-bo water filter and you find it here. Usage instructions are really simple. You can find them here

Caffeinated Style

I don’t know about you but I am a cappuccino a day kinds gal. Of course, each of those take-away cups comes with a plastic lid. Since I won’t be giving up my cuppa anytime soon, it’s time to find an eco-friendly alternative. Each of the stores already mentioned also have fashionable alternatives for your daily takeaway cup.

These are just a few changes that we can make daily to reduce our impact on the environment. I plan on sharing more of these more regularly as there are so many small changes that we can make that will contribute to making a big positive impact on our planet earth. There is also evidence that, were efforts have been made to help the earth and ecosystem heal themselves, healing and rejuvenation is actually taking place. Did you know that the hole in the ozone layer is closing due to changes implemented since the 80’s/90’s? We can make a difference people but we must start today.

I look forward to hearing how you are doing with the challenge over the month of July and I will share my ups and downs as well. By the way, none of the links here are affiliate links so there is no money in it for me just the joy of knowing that we are having a positive impact on our planet. Good luck with it! I’ll leave you with this quote by Jane Goodall

“You cannot get through a single day without having an impact on the world around you. What you do makes a difference and you have to decide what kind of a difference you want to make.”

Jane Goodall
Boats on a calm sea near rocks lit by a golden setting sun.  Quote by Jane goodall